The other day I was talking with Justin and I commented on how long his hair is getting. And for those that know me, (which better be all of you or I'm going to have to delete this blog again. hehe) you know that I do not cut his hair. I shave it. It's easy and he actually looks really cute with a little fuzzy head!
His dad said we'll shave it after his birthday pictures. I would prefer to do it before, but I agreed and commented that you can really see the pretty red in his hair when it gets longer. And that was the end of the conversation.
Later that evening Justin tells me he wants me to shave his head. I told him I will do it after his pictures. He gets persistent. He wants it shaved now.
I can't do it right now. I am in the middle of dinner and chores. So I try to make a deal with him to do it this weekend.
He starts crying.
"What's the matter, Baby?"
"I don't want red hair."
That broke my heart! I love his hair! I replayed the conversation from earlier back in my head and I do not believe I had put a negative connotation on his red hair. I think it is a beautiful color! Infact, I am quite jealous of it!
I still didn't have time to shave it right then and there. I tried explaining to him how wonderful his hair is and how much I love it. But that wasn't working. I was telling him all of the amazing colors that are in his hair! He's got a little bit of red, and gold, and brown...
He starts calming down at brown.
"My hair is brown?"
That was the key! "Yes, Buddy."
And then he was ok.
The next day I was making some cream cheese pies for work (yum yum) and the kids were all too anxious to help me clean the bowls! Of course they got cream cheese and pudding all over their faces and in their hair. We cleaned up the best we could.
Well, apparently we missed a spot. Justin had some cream cheese that had dried in his hair. He comes running to me screaming about how he just wants to shave his head! I finally got him to just jump in the shower and we washed it all out of his hair, but I just don't understand why he's so sensitive about his hair all of the sudden!
So I think we are definitely going to shave it this weekend. There is no point in making him suffer even if I don't agree with his reasoning.